I Wore a BDSM Collar to the Louvre. Here's What Happened...
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In a moment of unconventional romanticism, my husband presented me with a wedding gift that was as beautiful as it was symbolic—a coral-colored leather BDSM collar. This gift, emblematic of trust, respect, and an adventurous spirit, became the centerpiece of an experiment during our honeymoon in Paris.
I decided to wear it to one of the most revered cultural institutions in the world: the Louvre.
The BDSM collar, contrary to common misconceptions, symbolizes love, care, and respect. It requires an immense level of trust and consent between partners, embodying open-mindedness and mutual understanding. Far from being a sign of subjugation, the collar is a testament to the power dynamics that play a crucial role in BDSM culture—dynamics based on clear communication and consent.
Above all, wearing the collar is empowering. It is an influential symbol of the power vested in the wearer, representing an honor whether chosen by oneself or bestowed by a partner. The real power of the collar lies in the choice it represents—the choice to retain power or to share it. This choice, and the freedom it entails, underscores the essence of empowerment.
For those outside the BDSM community, the idea of wearing a collar or any form of leather bondage wear might seem daunting or even alien. However, if you possess a rebellious spirit or a taste for the refined, consider experimenting with this form of expression. It might surprise you how wearing such a piece can boost your confidence, making you feel sexier and more empowered than ever before.
In the end, my walk through the Louvre with a BDSM collar was more than a personal test; it was a statement on love, trust, and the beauty of embracing one's individuality. While leather bondage wear may not be everyone's choice, for those willing to explore, it offers a unique path to self-expression and empowerment.
Whether you're a former punk-rocker with a 401k, someone who craves a splash of color in their wardrobe, or simply curious about the world of BDSM, there's a place for you in this vibrant and inclusive community.
Jen Johnson is the founder of Neon Coyotes.
